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Dec 31 2015

2015: A Year of Getting the Balance Right in my Life

2015 A Year of Getting the Balance Right in my Life

I am stepping away from what I usually post on Fridays to review the year.  Just to recap, at the end of 2014, I wanted to get the balance right in my life.  I had moved to Poland at the end of 2014, and I was working a lot, but not doing much of anything else.  It was important to redress that, and I did.  I had some challenges along the way, but I’ve also learned and been reminded of a few things that are important.

The Challenges I Faced


Technology proved to be my biggest challenge in 2015.  My smartphone stopped working in 2014, so I bought a tablet instead.  It seemed like the perfect answer because I could still make calls on it, if I wanted, but I knew I would use it more for social media and the internet.  Unfortunately, it was plagued with problems, and never really functioned properly.  It stopped working completely while I was away one weekend.  Thinking my technological problems were behind me, I bought another phone when I returned to the UK, but that didn’t work properly either.  I just couldn’t understand what was going on.  I still have to send it away to have it repaired.  In the meantime, so I wouldn’t be without a phone, I bought a cheap smartphone.  The camera isn’t the best quality, but it’s an interim solution until I can either get the other one fixed, or until I find another solution.

My netbook broke while travelling during the Easter holidays.  I had an old laptop that I took back to Poland, but it was too big and heavy to carry around.  I bought a replacement battery for it that only lasted few months.  Now, it has to be plugged in to use, so it isn’t practical for what I need.  I needed a laptop that would be reliable; long-lasting; have a great battery life, so I could use it without having to plug it in; lightweight, so I could take it wherever I went; and durable because I would be travelling with it.  It seemed that there was only one company that made laptops that ticked all my boxes – Apple.  So, in December, after much deliberation on my part, because of the cost, I bit the bullet and bought myself a MacBook Air.  I went for a 13-inch because I’m not always travelling, and I wanted a decent sized laptop.  I’ve only had it for a few weeks, but I am delighted with it because I take it everywhere with me; the battery lasts for such a long time; and it doesn’t take long to charge.  In addition, the MacBook Air starts up and shuts down quickly, which is perfect for when I just have a short time, and it’s easy to share photos and links on social media.

My camera started playing up.  The zoom didn’t always work, so I was concerned that it would stop working completely.  I needed to get a new one.  I wanted something that was small and light, but a good quality camera.  I decided to go for a Compact System Camera (Mirrorless).  I bought an Olympus PL-6 which came with two lenses.  It is perfect for what I need.  I can use it on auto when i need to take photos quickly, or use it on manual when I have the time to change the settings to get the photo I want.

So, apart from a mobile device for my social media needs, I have managed to sort out the challenges I faced with technology.


While I was in Poland, at the end of 2014, I had to pay to have my house in the UK re-roofed.  That was expensive, and I spent most of 2015 paying that off because I was getting paid a local wage in Poland.  Because of my financial situation, I was also restricted with where I could go and what I could do.

For my 2-week holiday, in February, I really wanted to travel abroad to somewhere hot.  It had been snowing in Poland, so I wasn’t keen to backpack in the snow.  Due to financial constraints, I did travel around Poland for that 2-week break.  I was fortunate because the weather improved, and I didn’t have to backpack in the snow.  I’m really glad I travelled around Poland rather than go abroad because I got to see a lot of the country.  It was more diverse and beautiful than I thought it would be.  I mean, who would have thought Poland had massive sand dunes?  I would never have known that if I hadn’t taken the time to travel around.

When my contract ended in Poland, I returned to the UK to teach at a summer school for 5 weeks to help with my financial situation.  The money I earned per week, was what I was getting per month in Poland.  With bed and board included, that helped enormously.  Then, while working at the summer school, I was offered a job in Oxford.  I hadn’t thought about staying in the UK, but the job and money were too good to pass up, so I took it.  My main goals then were to pay off the last remaining debt I had, which I did; get a good laptop and camera, which I did; and to travel more further afield.  I hadn’t been on a long-haul flight since 2009.  It had been 6 years since I last travelled further than Europe.  So, I went to Sri Lanka for Christmas, and I have booked to go to Costa Rica in February.  Winning the cost of the flight helped with my trip in February.

What I have learned


I only had one day off a week for much of the year, which was hard when I wanted to travel on my time off.  I thought about going for day trips and the odd night away.  The first day trip I went on was to a small spa town close to where I was living.  The following week, I decided to go somewhere else.  I ended up going away every weekend to a different place, and I went further and further every time.  I was tired, but I found it energising.  I realised how important it was for me to get out and do something.  I got to see so much more, although I was limited with how far I could actually travel because I had to be back for work and prepared to teach my lessons.  This experience taught me a valuable lesson, and that is that you can do a lot even with just a short amount of time.  People use time as an excuse.  I certainly have over the years.  The thing is, you don’t need as much time as you think you need.  Going away like that also made it seem as if I had longer off because I went away and did things.  Perception of time is interesting.

Making the Most of Life

Even with a limited amount of money and time available, you can still do things you want, although you will have to compromise and do things slightly differently.  I would have loved to have had longer off, so I could have seen and done more on my time off.  The reality is, I didn’t.  I had to make the most of the time I had.  I wished I had more money to travel further afield, but I didn’t.  The reality was, I had to travel within my limited means.  I did, and I had a great time doing that.


Money isn’t everything; I know that.  However, it is enabling me to do the things I want to do.  I’m not one for material possessions, and I live cheaply on a day-to-day basis.  The main thing I spend my money on is travel because it’s important to me.  I love travelling: discovering new places, taking photos, and then writing about my experience.  With more money, I can travel further afield, and I don’t have to use hostels all the time.  I like hostels, don’t get me wrong, and I will continue to use them from time to time, but it’s nice to be able to afford an en-suite room, so I don’t have to share.  Having a bit more money means I can treat myself a bit more.

Seizing Opportunities in 2016

I have no idea what 2016 will bring.  I don’t know where I will be working, since my contract is only temporary and due to finish in February.  Will the contract be extended? Who knows?  Time will tell.  Whatever happens, I need to identify and seize any opportunities that present themselves in 2016.

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