I attended the World Travel Market in London last week to get up to date, connect with others in the industry, and to get a clearer idea of what I want to do next year. I managed to do all of that but there was one session in particular that really interested me. The thing is, it wasn’t one that I was going to attend because the session was ‘Investing in Youth – The Future of Tourism’ and my focus is independent travel for women aged 35 and over. Naturally, I didn’t think it would be of any interest but I attended the session to find out what they had to say about the future of tourism. Surprisingly, it turned out to be very relevant because the main message was that youth travel is a state of mind and it’s about how you travel rather than being age-related. As a 40 something traveller, my ears pricked up when I heard that and I listened intently to the rest of the presentation.
When I went travelling around the world for the first time at the age of 38, one of my concerns before I left was being an older than average traveller. The thing is, I really didn’t need to worry about that because the more I travelled, the more I realised that age wasn’t an issue. I found that I had other things in common with my fellow travellers such as an interest in travel, experiencing new cultures, enjoying the freedom of travelling around, and having fun.
Five years on, whilst travelling around Europe this year, I started wondering if I was too old for the way I like to travel because, for the first time, my age seemed to be a problem. Yes, I was 5 years older than when I travelled around the world but I didn’t feel older. In fact, I probably feel younger now than I did when I first went travelling.
It got me thinking about what was different this year from the first time I went travelling. I tend to stay in different types of accommodation but it’s often hostels. I also try to encourage my readers to consider staying in hostels too because they aren’t just for young people. Having said that, while I was looking for accommodation on my smartphone on my way to Amsterdam in May this year, I saw there was a maximum age limit of 40 on the description of some of the hostels. As I was 43 at the time, that was a bit of a shocker. Since then, I have noticed other hostels in Europe with maximum age limits, some of which are as young as 35. These age limits seem a bit arbitrary. I can only assume it’s either because they have worked out that the average age of their guests is significantly younger than that or they think we are just too darn old and like to sit in our slippers and jammies in front of the TV. Well, yes, sometimes I have been known to do that but I also like to go out and enjoy myself. I know for a fact that I’m not the only 40-something like that. Just because we have reached our mid 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond doesn’t mean we don’t like to have fun, be silly, enjoy ourselves, and party. We do! And before you think it, it’s not because we are having a midlife crisis or are trying to reclaim our youth. We are who we are, regardless of age. Just because we have reached a certain age doesn’t mean we suddenly change. I love life, I realise how precious it is, and want to make the most of it. Life really is about living and you can do that at any age. It isn’t just reserved for younger people.
So, please stop assuming that just because we have reached a certain age you can write us off. Please stop limiting where we can stay by having age limits. There are many more people over the age of 35 travelling and seeking adventure. That is set to increase, according to the session at the World Travel Market on the future of tourism. People, including those over the age of 35, are travelling for longer periods of time, tend to have more money, travel in a more sustainable way, and all of that benefits the country in which the person is travelling.
In case you are wondering, that is me in the photograph at the tender age of 39½ in Salar de Unyuni, Bolivia. It was an incredible place and I was fortunate to be there with an amazing group of people, which made it particularly memorable.
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Do you agree that travel is a state of mind and not to do with age? I’d love to hear your views.